tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008756908325864151.post4506099850141068714..comments2023-06-12T05:27:16.255-05:00Comments on Ode To Umbrella Moments: TodayTheButterfly2http://www.blogger.com/profile/04649851690479005469noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008756908325864151.post-62468913718100653142009-06-04T23:39:51.687-05:002009-06-04T23:39:51.687-05:00Carissa, we're praying for you and Ernest, lit...Carissa, we're praying for you and Ernest, little Elijah and Alli. Yes I am sure it is very hard for Alli, sensing something is really wrong. She is in good hands, and I am sure having lots of fun. We pray for Elijah to be healed immediately and that you can take your healthy son home soon.LeRoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082995527273193062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8008756908325864151.post-10744916029856264982009-06-04T22:18:58.912-05:002009-06-04T22:18:58.912-05:00Carissa
You have got to take a serious step back g...Carissa<br />You have got to take a serious step back girl, you are going to burn out really fast at this rate and that will help no one in this situation. When we brought Micah home from a 3 week hospital stay we had Emmanuel at home who hadn't really spent anytime with me and had been living in the Ronald MacDonald house. I didn't ever worry about home life, I was just worried about my daughter's heart. Emmanuel bounced back within a couple days and we settled into a routine that included Micah needing care 24/7 and a Million doctor's appointments. It really does work, Micah wasn't ever allowed to cry and I was running to her all the time. Invest in a great sling and spend a bunch of time at the park with the baby in the sling. Ali will be okay, show her love when you can and allow others to pick up you slack when you are finding that you can't care for all her needs.<br />One thing I realized through losing our baby is you need to except help when offered and not feel bad about it. when your life slows down you will have more then enough opportunity to pay it back to someone else.<br />Take heart sweetie, don't give in to discouragement and do your best.<br />call me if you need to talk.Evan and Melhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02321486363914102498noreply@blogger.com